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Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Touching moments......

  On their way back from school Arjun started talking....

Arjun:   Bro! I am moving to a different city to study.  
          I will miss you man......
Pargat:   I will miss you too mate. But nothing can 
          break our friendship. We will at least meet 
          once every year. 
Arjun:   Yes that is a deal!


          and they parted with tears in their eyes...

As time went by, both got busy with their work life.They kept their promise for two years and after that they moved on with their own lives and in the process Arjun lost his contact with Pargat. Time went by and both became Police officers.

          30 years later.........

 Venue:   The Police station where Arjun works.


          Tring.....Tring......



Arjun picks up the call and he gets a pleasant surprise....
      "Is this Arjun?"
     " Yes. Who is on the line?"
     " Bro. Its Pargat! I just found out that you are 
       posted in this station"

       Tears drops welled up Arjun's eyes....


Arjun:    Where are you?
Pargat:   I am standing outside the Police station. Come 
         out.
Arjun:    Is it? I am coming right away.


Arjun rushed out of the police station and saw Pargat standing outside. They were seeing each other for the first time after thirty years. He wanted to go and hug his friend. But he could not hug his friend. It was a very touching moment for both of them.


   Have you ever seen a touching moment like this?







Saturday, May 14, 2011

Ma Tujhe Salaam !!!!



           A Mom comes to visit her son Kumar for dinner,   who lives with a  roommate,  a girl named Sunita.

During the course of the meal, his mother couldn't help but notice how pretty Kumar's roommate was.
    
            She had long been suspicious of a relationship between the two,  and this had only made her more curious.   Over the course of the evening, while watching the two interact, she started to wonder if there was more between kumar and his roommate  than met the eye. 

     Reading his mom's thoughts, Kumar volunteered." I know what you must be  thinking, but I assure you Sunita and I are just roommates."

           About a week later,  Sunita  came to Kumar saying,  "Ever since your mother came to dinner,
     
       I've been unable to find the silver chutney jar. You don't suppose  she took it, do you?" 
     
     Kumar said, " Well  I  doubt it, but I'll email her, just to be sure." so he sat down and wrote.

Dear mother,

    I'm not saying that you 'did' take the chutney jar from my house, I'm not saying  that you didn't take the
 chutney jar. But the fact remains that it has been missing ever since you left after dinner.

Love, Kumar.

     And Kumar receives Mother's reply........

Dear Beta,

I'm not saying that you 'do' sleep with  Sunita, I'm not saying that you don't sleep with Sunita.

But the fact remains that if she was sleeping in her OWN bed, she would have found the chutney jar
by now under the pillow....

Love,
Mom.



''Itihaas gavaha hai,jo ma se khela, vo nahi khila''
 
Kya aap kuchh misaal paish karna chahenge....

Saturday, April 30, 2011

7 sUperb thoUghTs


Games people play........

Felt like sharing these with you.

Shakespeare....
"Never Play With The Feelings Of Others
Because You May Win The Game
But The Risk Is That You Will Surely Lose
The Person For A Life Time".


Napoleon.......
"The world suffers a lot.
Not because of the violence of bad people,
But because of the silence of good people!"


Einstein.........
"I am thankful to all those who said NO to me
Its because of them I did it myself.."

Abraham Lincoln.........
"If friendship is your weakest point then
you are the strongest person
in the world"

Shakespeare..........
"Laughing Faces Do Not Mean That There Is
Absence Of Sorrow!
But It Means That They Have The Ability To
Deal With It".

William Arthur.........
"Opportunities Are Like Sunrises, If You
Wait Too Long You Can Miss Them".

Hitler.....
"When You Are In The Light, Everything
Follows You,
But When You Enter Into The Dark, Even
Your Own Shadow Doesn't Follow You."

Shakespeare.............
"Coin Always Makes Sound
But The Currency Notes Are Always Silent.
So When Your Value Increases
Keep Yourself Calm and Silent"


Dr Abdul Kalaam........
"It Is Very Easy To Defeat Someone,

But It Is Very Hard To Win Some

Thursday, April 28, 2011

.... tabhi to....i lUV My eLdErS....



An elderly man in Mumbai calls his son in New York and says,
'I hate to ruin your day son, but I have to tell you that your mother and I are getting a divorce; 35 years of marriage...And that much misery is enough!'

  "Dad,  what are you talking about?' the son screams.

 'We can't stand the sight of each other any longer.' the old 
man says. 'We're sick of each other, and I'm sick of talking about this, so you call your sister in Hong Kong and tell her !'


Frantic, the son calls his sister, who explodes on the phone.

'Like heck they're getting divorced,' she shouts I'll take care of this'

She calls  Mumbai  Immediately, and screams at the old man,' You're not getting divorced. Don't do a single thing until I get there.'  I'm calling my brother back, and we'll both be  there tomorrow. Until then don't do a thing,' DO YOU HEAR??' 
And she hangs up.
 
The old man hangs up his phone and turns to his wife..."Okay, he says,'It's all set. They're both coming for our anniversary and paying their own airfare!!' 


Moral-

-No one is busy in  this world  all 365 days.
-The sky is not going to fall down if you take a few days LEAVE  and meet your dear ones.

Thursday, April 14, 2011

THE SOUL THERAPY !


The Soul Therapy-

Which day is the MOST BEAUTIFUL day in your life ???
-Today. 

What’s the easiest thing to do in life ???
-A mistake. 

What’s the greatest obstacle ???
-Fear. 

The most profound tragedy in life ?
-Abandonment. 

The root of all evil ???
-Egotism. 

The most wonderful entertainment & fun ???
-Work, of course !  

The greatest failure ?
-Lack of faith. 

The best teachers ?
-Kids. 

The absolute prime need ??
-Contact with another human being. 

What brings a person the greatest feeling of satisfaction ?
-Being of help to somebody & being appreciated.  

The greatest mystery ?
-Death. 

The most serious human failing ?
-Lack of a sense of humor.  

The greatest Enemy ???
-Deceit & lies.  

The worst emotion ?
-Anger. 

The most wonderful gift ?
-Forgiveness.  

The #1 most desired necessity?
-One’s own home.
The most wonderful feeling ???
-Inner peace. 

The best defense ?
-A smile. 

The best medicine ?
-Optimism. 

The greatest might on earth ?
-Faith.  

The people whom we need most of all ?
-Our parents. 

What’s the most beautiful of all ?
-LOVE.



Intelligence without love makes you perverse.
 
Fairness & justness without love makes you inflexible & stern.
 
Diplomacy & tact without love makes you a hypocrite.
 
Success without love turns you arrogant.
 
Wealth without love makes you mean & tight–fisted.
 
Poverty without love turns you into a radical.
 
Beauty without love makes you capricious.
 
Authority & power without love lead to tyranny.
 
Labor without love turns you into a slave.
 
Naivety without love deprives you of values.
 
Prayer & worship without love turns you into a egotist.
 
Faith without love turns you into a fanatic.
 
Bearing your cross in life without love becomes a terrible burden.
 
LIFE WITHOUT LOVE LOSES ITS MEANING !

God Bless You !


Thursday, April 7, 2011

Relationship







Little boy and his father were crossing a bridge. The father was kind of scared so he asked his little son, 

'Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river.'

The little boy said, 'No, Dad. You hold my hand.'
'What's the difference?' Asked the puzzled father.

'There's a big difference,' replied the little boy..

'If I hold your hand and something happens to me,
chances are that I may let your hand go.

But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens, you will never let my hand go."

In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond.

So hold the hand of the person who loves you rather than expecting them to hold yours...

Monday, March 28, 2011

Know our India !



   
1- 71% or 770 million people are below 35 years of age,  Indians are young.
 

2-  29 million people are born every year, 10 million die per year, population increase 1.8% per year.
 

3- 90% to 94% drop out rate of children (including those who
never went to school) between kindergarten and class 10+2.
 

4- India has 970,000 schools, China has 1,800,000.
 

5- 6% are the ones that cross the 10+2 stage, (Educational 'Line of Control') which is our so called educated youth, go in for a regular college degree which may not be very relevant in today's context for the sake of employment generation and National GDP enhancement.
 

6- 72% of all graduates from the 15,600 colleges are Arts graduates. Balance 28% in Science, Commerce, Engineering, I.T., Medical, Law, Management and special subjects.
 

7- India has 372 universities, China has 900 & Japan has 4000.
 

8-     While 95% of the world youth between 15 to 35 years of age learn a vocation, a skill or a trade, with a choice of 2,500 vocational education and training (VET) programs, we in India
have only identified about 71 trades, after 58 years of Independence and hardly 2% of the population goes for formal
VET training!
 

9-   India has 11,000 ITI's and VET schools, China has 500,000
senior secondary vocational eduacation and training schools.
 

10-  We can get engineers and MBA's in India but no carpenters, plumbers, drivers, repairmen and other skilled personnel as per international standards!
 

11-  Information Technology, Software or I.T. is the only exception, possibly due to 50,000 or more private I.T. training centers spread across the country.
 

12-  I.T. & Software is only 1.5% of the world's GDP. India's present share is about 5%. For rapid economic growth and employment generation we need to concentrate on the balance 95% of the Economy & Enterprise and make it world class.
 

13-  300* million unemployed / employable age* and only 45million have actually registered with employment offices with little or no hope of getting employment (our estimates)*.
 

14-  Of all new employment generated, 1% are Government jobs,2% are in the 'organized sector' and the balance 97% in the'unorganized sector'
 

15- Out of our 430 million workforce, 94% work in the 'unorganized sector' and about 6% in the 'organized sector'.
 

16-  1.7% of the entire population, viz. 18 million people work for the Central & State Government; another 9 million work in the 'private organized sector', a total of 2.6% of the population.
 

17-  All the Labour Laws are made to protect, at any cost, the above
 

2.6% of the Indian population. Article 311 of the Indian constitution needs revision since it over-protects employees of the Government even at a cost to the Nation.
 

18-  While MP's, MLA's and Municipal Councilors and the village Panchayats, can only be elected for a maximum of 5 years, the officials, babus, and government employees enjoy life long benefits of employment, in spite of their performance.
 


19- 600 million illiterate people, based on the international definition of the 3R's (reading, writing and arithmetic, education up to primary level or Class 5th). (our esitimates) as per Goverment of India is 63% literate. China is 93% literate.
 


20- The Indian definition of literacy is based on survey of people“If you can write your name, you are literate”; nobody has seriously ever challenged this definition!
 

21-  260 million live below the Government of India's definition of the Poverty Line of Rs.11(Rural) to Rs 14(Urban) per day! (based on being able to buy enough rice and wheat from the Public Distribution System /Ration Shops,which has food value of 2,200 K calories per day).
 


22-  Nobody has ever challenged this definition of 'Poverty Line'.How can one expect people to live with a few kilos of raw uncooked wheat or rice? As human beings don't we need more? How about one set of clothes to cover our bodies, a set of chappals for our feet, some vegetables, milk and fruit, in our diet? How will we cook without any energy and fuel?
 


23- 450 million* live below the poverty line definition of the World Bank's old definition of @ US$ 1 per day per person, or US$ 365 per year. 700 million* people below the poverty line
definition of the World Bank's new definition of @ US$ 2 per
day per person, or US$ 730 per year. (our estimates)*



24-   Average Per Capita of an Indian is about US$ 600 per year per person (1.07 billion people and a GDP of US$ 648 billion). The average earning of an Indian is US$ 1.65 per day.
 

25- India has only 1.72% of the World GDP and has 17% of the
world population. Demands are high but buying power is low. Hence we will need to increase our export related activities by 10 times, as the foreign markets are 60 times bigger than the Indian market. Our share of world markets or foreign trade is 0.8%, down from 33% 1,000 years ago, down from 27% when the British landed in India and down from 3% in 1947.
 


26-   Only 5% of Indians understand English, yet most of the websites of the Government of India, State Governments and Public Institutions are in English!
 

27-   While English is a language used in countries which account for about 40% of the world GDP, viz., USA + UK + old British Colonies, yet in India while we talk of Globalization, we are not serious to learn the other languages of the world, eg., Japanese, German etc, unlike the Chinese youth who are doing
otherwise.
 

28-  India is probably at the bottom of the heap, as far as the human development index is concerned such as infant  mortality, child care, malnutrition, women's health, isease, health, clean water, etc.
 

29-   Democracy is, to the people, for the people, by the people. If we  have to succeed, the Citizen has to get involved andparticipate in Governance.
 

30-  Unlike other countries, we have 18 official languages, 4,000 dialects, all the religions of the world, and because of low human and economic development, emphasis on SC, ST, Dalits, caste, religion, sect, minorities, region, ethnic groups, etc.
 

31-  Employment generation is restricted due to existing Policies
which do not encourage 'Labour Intensive' enterprises. Relevant Labour Reforms in line with prevailing practices in other countries of Asia are required for a level playing field for
Indian organizations.

 

32-   The size of Enterprises cannot be decided by officials in the
Central Government.They are decided by technology, process, international market forces and competitive pressures. Reservation for Small Scale Industry, SSI, needs to be scrapped
and SME's should be encouraged. SSI's are 7% of the Indian GDP. 99.7% of all organizations in the world are SME's. 90% of the Indian GDP are SME's. We need to understand the meaning of 'E' in SME (small & medium enterprise).
 


33-   As per www.Loksatta.org, about Rs. 2200 crores are spent every day, at the Centre and State level, both on revenue as well
as capital account in order to Govern INDIA. To improve Governance we need to insure +95% of Literacy, a large number of active Citizen Groups and maximum use of The Right to Information Act!


      
  Under the above circumstances how can we run an efficient country with Good Governance and Effective Administration?